Today I would like to tell you about one personal observation, which concerns the American mentality. From the cradle of Americans begin to accustom to independence, there’s even such a technique - once a day the awake baby is left in the crib for an hour in the room of one, so that he himself learns to deal with his problems.
And in 18 years, most teens leave their parental home, starting to live in a dormitory at an educational institution, either getting a job and renting a house.
Twenty five healthy forehead, sitting on the neck of parents, in America is just an indecent thing. In this way, US adult full confidence, that everything around depends solely on himself and he himself is the creator of his fate.
The American propaganda machine is adding fuel to the fire - “you are in the country of Great Opportunities, just get up and take everything yourself, What do you want!”.
And now just statistics:
– 70% residents of the United States takes certain legal psychotropic drugs more
– 50% at least once in a life have been seen by a psychiatrist, or, at least, psychoanalyst
– 25% has these or other revealed mental deviations at various stages.
Why is this happening?
Yes because, once absolutely self-reliant, American, who bought a car on credit, taking a mortgage and sending his son to study, has an accident (elk crossed the road) and goes to hospital for a long time, as a result, the insurance company refuses to pay bills due to too long treatment, and for the same reason he is fired from work, the world is turning upside down.
There is no place for a broken cog in the healthy mechanism of American society - they just throw it away. And now the bailiffs are taking away the house and the car, huge dozens of hospital bills, and even hundreds of thousands of dollars, now you need to extinguish for twenty years, and a woman, picking up a student who returned from an unpaid university, son, moving to a tiny little room, for he cannot afford to support an unemployed husband.
In the head of the American is a complete “sloppiness”. How so? More recently, he ruled his life, need to say, superbly managed, everything depended only on himself, and now, is, that he is not the main one!? And here the poor fellow, month swelling and almost kooky, creeps to the brain, which the, after listening to the unfortunate, prescribes antidepressants for several hundred dollars and prescribes a dozen more sessions (naturally, Not for free), during which tells the same doctrine: “Everything in our life depends entirely on ourselves, we make decisions and are responsible for their consequences!" Sick, naturally, doubts: “But how so, doctor, I did everything right, worked a lot, loved the family, and on Sundays I went to church? So why because of some moose, my whole life flew to tartararam? Isn't he actually the arbiter of my fate?”.
And in this case, another remarkable doctrine has been prepared by American psychoanalysts.: Shit Happens. type, “Shit happens”! I.e, everything is fine with you, just so the stars came together. And here it is, Shit. “But that means absolutely nothing, you are still smart, strong and omnipotent!”
Now back to our sinful land, i.e, to Russia and remember, what are our fundamental questions? Right - “who is to blame??"And" what to do?“. We do not rely on ourselves, we definitely need to consult with someone, get someone else's opinion, sit on the forums, and only after that we decide on some step.
What is all this for?? Well, you yourself know - so that later you could find the one to blame for your failures and problems. the very, whose advice was asked.
No Shield Happings! Those around are to blame for everything! If you take the same case with a moose - starting with his wife, who called at the wrong time and you were distracted from the road, forester, who “does not watch his moose” and ending with the government, which only does, what is stealing, instead of, to put a fence along the road. And try to say, it is not so.
I can not judge, which worldview is more correct and wiser, who is better, and who is worse. Many eminent philosophers smashed spears in heated debate on such topics.
I propose to discuss in the comments.
